Want To Know How To Use Failure To Succeed ?
Let Me Show You !!
Do you know that most successful people on this planet do perform well when faced with failure ?
Do you know that every individual’s fight or flight instincts comes from individual adrenaline surge, which is triggered by the effects of fear and fright ?
Well don’t ask me because I am not a psychiatric doctor. But I will sufficiently tell you this; as this is what happens to me when I am faced with fear of failure.
My instincts get to be stronger and my sensory perception tends to be sharper. Combined with time factors and the very need of the matter at hand, plus my brain storming and problem solving ability has never been better.
Yes believe it or not that’s what happens….
I don’t know about you but read along.
Perhaps at the end of this post you may find out what is driving you as well.
Still here ?
Good Let go ….because you deserve to know !!
Why Am I Posting This Today ?
This post was inspired by the following recent findings I ‘ve just discovered over the past two months as a result of my research on my on going work in progress eBook where I intend to help people succeed in online business.
I discovered that:
- People are afraid of failure
- That people are afraid of success (can you believe that ?)
- That people easily give up when hit by failure
- Some people has no idea how to deal with failure
- A lot of people has no idea how to flip failure to success
- Lots of people fail to take action because of fear of failure
Purpose Of This Post Today
At the end of this post, you should be able to learn how to:-
- Understand failure
- How to flip failure to success
- How to take action despite all odds
According to en.Wikipedia.org “Failure is the state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success”.
I am sure you do not want me to bore you with various authoritative definitions of failure because that is not the objective of this post today.
By that I meant that the truth is, you do not need me or any one else to tell you what failure is.
Because you are probably experiencing one at moment. Or you just came out of one recently.
May be perhaps you are battling yours while searching for some solution or how to cope. Which is why you landed on this page today.
As an Internet Marketing Entrepreneur and an Online Business Strategist, I have had my own share of failures and still open for more should another pop up by the corner.
The only different now is that I knows exactly where I am heading to, how to get there and where I need to be in both short and long term strategic plan.
Before now ?
I only started this blog site January this year and I am quit happy with how far I have come and the direction I am going.
And believe me. The future is very bright !!
Because before January this year I went through tirades of fire and brimstones of failures while trying to not only find how to make extra income online, but at least in trying to set up a descent website blog like this one for starters sake.
I have bought shit loads of shiny objects that promised me six figure within one month.
Turned out to be a total hokum !!
Yea ! A total and complete waste of precious time and money !!
Hell !! I even bought one that promised the whole “shebang” which include a guarantee that I will be making money while I am asleep with yet more promises of how I can just install and forget done for you software.
I wish ……..
plus ofcos at a very nice hefty premium indeed.
“Because there are no such thing as something for nothing” ! I am sure Napoleon Hills’s Think And Grow Rich will clear the air on that quote.
You can imagine how lame I was plus the emotion I went through when I realised that its all just another rubbish designed to take my hard earned money….
End result was abysmal failure……..
I have to literally close everything down and took a break from anything online business and in fact I actually gave up at some point which nearly span to a month.
I was angry, annoyed, had enough of these self acclaimed internet opportunist, plus I had no clue or were to go for help and I nearly auctioned the hell out of my laptop on the good old eBay …
Imagine that !?
Facing Failure Direct
Now do you understand what failure really is ? Can you relate to that ? How downing one can feel when failure hits one in the face ?
Yes I have failed online a lot and bought the T-shirt and guess what ? I am actually glad today that I did …..
Your Failures might not be in the same fashion, perhaps in other career pursuit or the other personal goals and accomplishments but when you fail at something, you failed; and the feeling is the same.
To better help you understand what failure is, I will like to do that by asking you these basic questions.
- Are you happy with your job right now ?
- Are you contented with your salary at work today ?
- Are you happy with where you are in life right now ?
- Have you reached the Maslow’s “Self Actualization Stage” in the hierarchy of need ? (meaning you have achieve the absoluteness of your life achievements)
- Have you wanted something so bad that you have failed several times trying to achieve that one thing ?
- Have you reached your goals this year yet ?
- What is the main challenge or obstacle that is standing before you and your success right now ?
- Have you made enough money to keep and support you and your family without worrying for another 20yrs or more ?
- Are you making the kind of money you have always wanted to sufficiently make each month ?
- Have you done or achieve something that gave you that self satisfaction of achievement which you believed will help others today ?
- How many times did you give up on something you have always wanted to finish but couldn’t due to perpetual failures ?
I can go on and on like our very popular 50cent’s 21 questions here and there today but still I wont be able to exhaust all the lists.
But the facts are these questions has probably touched a cord in your life right now and I am sure you are in the right frame of mind to follow me into the next sub-heading because it is going to get even hotter ……
How To Use Failure To Succeed
Or as I will like to coin it:- how to flip your failures into a success stories.
You can laterally understand how to use failure to succeed if you are really determined to succeed in the first place. Success is not just all about how much money you are making.
To many people, success can be anything !
Let us Recap from the beginning:-
- You have red through the purpose of this post today
- You have gained more understanding of what failure is from my personal examples
- You answered those questions I asked which has also triggered both past and present memories of events
- And then now what ??
Well if you ask me I will say…. now is the time to start doing something !!
To be able to use your failure to succeed you have to be in a certain frame of mind. You have to be :-
- Open minded
- Be able to think positively
- Constantly persistence
As simple as that but believe me when I say it is the most difficult thing people found these days to apply on their daily life.
And yet the only thing one needed to overcome failure and flip it into a success story.
For Example :-
When I was met with various failures trying to learn how to make money online I never totally gave up.
In my mind’s eyes I know where I am going and where I need to be. Physically I do not know how to get there and no clue on how to begin.. but…..
Still yet I kept an open mind and blocked out all negativities by staying focus and positive towards what I want.
I was relentless in my pursuit and with constant persistence I know one day I will find the right truthful and honest help I needed.
I needed help because to be able to get to where I want to be, I realised I needed help.
And that was when I came across an honest review about Wealthy Affiliate and after much research, I signed up for their wonderful training and support which changed everything for me.
If your aim is to set up a nice website like mine so you can optimize and monetize for long term income online, I will recommend you sign up your free account HERE today and give it a try.
Today I am on a journey with a clear vision of where I am heading to and how to get there. And so could you.
I am currently working on my first eBook on how to … and I intend to help lots of folks overcome the same challenges and obstacles I faced when I started out.
So stay tuned and get ready to grab a copy when its ready.
Take Away Tips
- Failure is nothing but an opportunity to do better
- Failure is telling you that you are on the right track
- Failure means you have got a better chance to succeed on the next attempt.
- Failure beats doing nothing at all
- Failure means you are alife
- Failure is what you needed to succeed
- Failure keeps your adrenaline pumping for another round
- Some people actually pray for failure so they can use it to succeed and do better and very quickly too.
- If you haven’t failed in anything then you haven’t tried anything at all.
How To Take Action Despite All Odds
- Find out why you have failed
- Find out how you failed
- Set up a new plan using the mistakes you did earlier
- Set out new plan on how to do better than before by understanding those mistakes
- Monitor the changes and see where you can improve along the line of doing it.
- Make it a priority and be persistence with your goal
- When you have achieve success, then you have to scale the process for even more success
I hope I have helped you in one way or the other today in understanding how you can use failure to succeed in anything you set your heart to do.
Napoleon Hill once asserted and I quote ” What ever a mind of man can think and conceive, that he can achieve”.
Yes with the right burning desire and the appropriate amount of positive thinking there will be no stopping you.
Especially if you want success in life.
Have you failed in any situation before ?
Do you have other ways you can turn your failures into success ? Please do comment below I am open for more suggestions. Plus so others can learn new things as well.
Don’t be afraid to fail in something.
Failure always bring success if you apply positive thinking with persistence in action. I know you want to better your life financially.
I know you really want to be the best in what you do.
I know you have it in you to succeed When you fail first time know it that you are on the right track to succeed the second time.
If your goal is to start making recurring income online to support you and your family this year, then I recommend you START HERE TODAY !
Taking action from today is the number one simple most important gift you can give yourself right now.
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